Three women who helped secure the conviction of a London man for historic sexual offences say the bond they formed during the legal process has become central to their recovery, as growing numbers of survivors of sexual violence choose to waive anonymity and speak publicly about their experiences.

Laura Hughes, Lauren Preston and Mary Sharp, now in their 40s and 50s, describe themselves collectively as “the girls,” a term they say reflects the close emotional support network that emerged after years of trauma connected to the same abuser, Martin Butler.

The women, who maintain regular contact through a WhatsApp group called Sister Solidarity, said their friendship developed after Butler was convicted for offences committed decades earlier.Martin Butler is serving a lengthy prison sentence after being convicted of the rape and buggery of Mary Sharp in 1988.

During the prosecution, Hughes and Preston provided evidence about separate abuse they said they experienced from Butler during the 1990s. Butler was later convicted in another trial involving the historic rape of an unidentified teenage victim.According to the women, Butler operated within the same community in Ruislip, where Hughes and Preston grew up and attended school together.

Sharp also lived in the area, although she did not know the other two women at the time.The women said Butler, who was significantly older than Hughes and Preston when they were teenagers, cultivated influence over vulnerable young people through parties involving alcohol and drugs at his apartment.

In 2023, the women met for the first time after Butler’s conviction in the case involving Sharp. Their decision to speak publicly later drew wider attention and became the basis for a documentary examining the long-term effects of abuse and the role of survivor solidarity.

The women’s experiences come amid broader public discussion around sexual violence and survivor testimony. In recent years, more survivors have chosen to identify themselves publicly, arguing that open discussion can challenge stigma surrounding rape cases.

Gisèle Pelicot, whose case in France drew international attention after she publicly discussed repeated drug-facilitated sexual assaults, said she hoped removing anonymity would help shift social attitudes around shame and victimhood.

Hughes, Preston and Sharp said that while Butler’s conviction represented a significant moment, the process of recovery remained difficult and uneven. All three described ongoing emotional effects linked to the abuse and the court proceedings.

“We would never allow a man to use the word ‘girls’ about us, but we use it with each other,” Hughes said. “We all have the same demon, the same monster, but we are rising together.”

The women said public exposure and revisiting traumatic experiences during legal proceedings carried emotional costs. Preston said that speaking publicly initially intensified anxiety and distress.“For about a year, I went backwards,” she said.

“I started to really suffer from anxiety.”Sharp said the psychological effects of the abuse and subsequent legal process continue to surface periodically despite the support system the women have built together.“We are not out of the woods,” Sharp said.

“I do still have wobbly moments.”Mental health specialists and victim support groups have long noted that recovery from sexual violence can involve prolonged psychological impacts, even after successful prosecutions.

Survivors may continue to experience anxiety, trauma responses and emotional distress long after court proceedings conclude.The three women said mutual support has become one of the most important factors in rebuilding confidence and stability.“I feel like I have freed my childhood self,” Hughes said.

“I can look myself in the eye now, almost as if I have become my own parent.”She added that trauma remained a permanent part of her life experience but said shared understanding among the women had changed how she copes with it.“Someone said that pain is a skin you can’t take off,” Hughes said.

“I feel that’s true with me and my trauma. But having the girls helps me cope with living in that skin and getting stronger within it.”Preston said the court proceedings and subsequent documentary project altered how she viewed herself publicly and privately.

“Everything that has happened, the court case, the documentary, it does make me hold my head up higher,” she said. “I couldn’t have done any of this by myself.

The girls give me strength.”Sharp described the friendship as an enduring emotional responsibility shared among the three women.

“I feel stronger now,” she said. “I wouldn’t do anything to upset my girls. They are part of me now.”

One year after a 7.7-magnitude earthquake struck central Myanmar on 28 March 2025, humanitarian agencies report a continued focus on addressing the psychological impact on children affected by both natural disaster and pre-existing conflict-driven displacement.

The earthquake caused widespread disruption across multiple regions, including parts of Shan State, where communities around Inle Lake in Nyaungshwe Township experienced structural damage to homes and shelters. Many families who had already been displaced due to ongoing conflict were forced to endure additional instability following the tremors and subsequent aftershocks.

Tun Myar, a 16-year-old displaced from Loikaw, was living with relatives under a monastery structure at the time of the earthquake. She reported that the building began to sway during the tremors, prompting her to flee outside before losing consciousness. Following the incident, she described experiencing persistent fear and emotional distress, consistent with patterns observed among other children in the affected communities.

According to field accounts, many families avoided returning indoors in the immediate aftermath due to concerns about structural collapse during aftershocks. Temporary arrangements, including makeshift tarpaulin shelters, became common. Nighttime conditions were reported to be particularly difficult, as minor environmental sounds often triggered panic responses among children who associated them with renewed seismic activity.

Local observations indicate that the earthquake compounded pre-existing vulnerabilities among displaced populations. Tun Myar, who had previously experienced family separation and loss, reported that the disaster intensified existing psychological strain. She described withdrawing socially, experiencing sleep disruption, and showing signs of prolonged anxiety.

Similar behavioral patterns have been noted among other children in the area, particularly those with prior exposure to conflict and displacement.Caregivers in affected communities have attempted to support children through informal coping mechanisms, including communal gatherings and recreational activities.

However, humanitarian agencies report that many parents lack the resources or guidance to address sustained psychological distress, highlighting the need for structured intervention.In response, UNICEF and its local partners have implemented child protection programmes across southern Shan State, focusing on psychosocial support and the establishment of child-friendly spaces.

These interventions are designed to provide structured environments where children can engage in supervised activities, interact with peers, and gradually re-establish a sense of routine.At designated safe spaces in Nyaungshwe Township, children participate in organized activities such as drawing, games, and group exercises facilitated by trained staff and youth volunteers.

Field reports indicate that these sessions aim to reduce anxiety and promote social reintegration, particularly for children who have become withdrawn following the earthquake.Tun Myar reported that participation in these activities contributed to a measurable change in her behavior. She stated that she gradually regained confidence and now takes on a leadership role in group sessions, assisting facilitators and encouraging younger participants.

Her experience reflects a broader trend identified by programme coordinators, who note that peer engagement and structured interaction can support recovery in post-disaster contexts.Another case documented in the same community involves Pan Lay Pyay, aged 13, who resides with her mother in temporary shelter conditions beneath a monastery structure.

The earthquake further weakened their already fragile living environment, increasing economic and social pressures on the household. Her mother, Daw Hla Hla Aye, reported difficulties in securing daily-wage employment and meeting education-related expenses.Despite these constraints, she observed that participation in child-focused programmes had a positive effect on her daughter’s well-being. She indicated that visible improvements in her child’s mood and engagement provided reassurance regarding her ability to continue education under challenging circumstances.

According to programme data, the interventions extend beyond recreational activities to include case management services, parenting sessions, and awareness initiatives addressing child protection risks. Mental health and psychosocial support components are integrated into these services, reflecting a broader shift toward comprehensive recovery strategies in humanitarian response.

One year after the earthquake, aid agencies report that the combined effects of natural disasters and ongoing conflict continue to shape living conditions in affected areas. In southern Shan State, recovery efforts are further complicated by additional environmental events, including flooding, which have prolonged displacement for many families.Officials involved in the response indicate that child-friendly spaces remain a central component of ongoing support efforts.

These facilities are intended not only to address immediate psychological needs but also to contribute to longer-term resilience by fostering social cohesion and restoring a degree of normalcy in disrupted environments.Humanitarian partners attribute the continuation of these programmes to financial and logistical support from international donors, although specific funding levels were not detailed.

The emphasis on sustained engagement reflects recognition that recovery from trauma, particularly among children, requires extended intervention beyond the initial emergency phase.Field observations suggest that participation in structured activities has enabled some children to re-engage with peers and rebuild confidence following the earthquake.

Programme facilitators report that consistent attendance and active involvement are indicators of gradual improvement, although outcomes vary depending on individual circumstances and prior exposure to stress.Tun Myar’s transition from a withdrawn participant to a group leader illustrates the potential impact of targeted interventions when sustained over time.

She expressed an intention to complete her education and pursue a career in medicine, indicating a shift toward future-oriented thinking following her involvement in the programme.While immediate physical risks associated with the earthquake have subsided, humanitarian assessments emphasize that psychological recovery remains ongoing.

The persistence of displacement, combined with economic uncertainty and prior conflict exposure, continues to influence the pace and extent of recovery among affected populations.